I’m Kenny Mammarella-D’Cruz.

I turn unconscious lives of survival into creative lives of passion. From “Am I?” to “I Am”.

People often meet me at a crossroads in their lives. At a loss or in emotional crisis lacking adequate tools, community or awareness to ‘deal with it like a man’. Either that, or they’re a success story and even through everything is crossed off their bucket lists, something deeper is stirring inside that wants to come alive. I ask the right questions and help things authentically fall together. Then the pennies drop and you become your own authentic man.

Before I tell you how I do this, I’d like to tell you why I do it. This comes from personal experience.

I came from dramatic beginnings: death threats, refugee camps, paternal abandonment, maternal enmeshment, childhood mental health issues and racism.

I moved to London and became a high-flying adrenaline junkie. Tight deadlines, extreme sports, anything that might distract me from the pain and emptiness I held deep within.

I realised that in order to free myself, I had to own my shadows and release the depressed ‘pause buttons’ from the past that kept me stuck in the same old story.

So I sat with my shadows and unlearned my limiting stories, turning addictive adrenaline into an enlivening endorphin buzz that I calmly share with my clients.

Previously, I worked in development in Fiji, co-ran a natural health centre in Sydney, worked with Mother Teresa’s in Calcutta whilst adventuring around the world. I followed life’s signs, resisted testing temptations and joined the jet-set island hopping seekers-of-the-truth as I unravelled what I carried within. My ‘accepted outsider’ experiences were a real gift. The cultures and classes I mixed in had vastly different tribal rules, ways of being, belief systems and outcomes. I got to truly know people across the board and really understand what makes different people tick. I certainly got to know myself as I took part and constantly adjusted my boundaries and beliefs in the face of new experiences. Life kept showing me where I was stuck and I discovered how to release the ‘depressed pause buttons’ as I turned it around. I taught myself to be present and respond in the moment. I sat with my shadows and unlearned my limits. I love to pass on my simple tools and techniques. I’m proud to belie the notion that men don’t willingly speak about ourselves. I work one-on-one, with business / life partners and hold the space for men’s groups. We turn our lives around.


About My Men’s Groups

Men show up and share who we really are, beyond the old restrictions of who we needed to be in order to survive. We laugh, listen and grow together. It’s all about hanging out and getting real.

We are accepting of self and others, accountable for who we are, what we do and how we respond to what life brings. We ‘come from the same side’ sharing our experiences, fears and feelings and quietly listening.

I run weekly open and closed groups in Camden Town and South Kensington. I will launch MenSpeak online ​men’s groups in Men’s Health Week in June 2015. I currently coach and mentor men and women to run their own groups; and I am currently writing ‘How To Run A Men’s Group‘, a handbook for those who wish to facilitate their own groups. Please click here to stay in the loop.


In The Media

‘Coach, consultant and guru of all things men…’ (Daily Express)

‘Man Whisperer’ (Newsweek) cover story article and a chapter in their eBook ‘The Descent of Men’ on my work and my groups.

Click through to my Media page and find out how I can improve the lives of your audience. Watch my videos, read my blogs and download my pictures and logos. Call me on +44 (0)7957 350034 for media comment.




Work With Me

Coaches send me clients for a quick unsticking and therapists are kept in the loop to manage shifts of consciousness in their clients. I Skype with execs and travellers alike and love working in person. Click here for a FREE Personal Discovery Questionnaire. I enjoy consulting with large corporations, but it’s the small businesses that I love making conscious and facilitating their turn-arounds.

I turn old stories into gold stories, shining light on the options ahead. Life is good and I pass it on like contagious laughter, with full-bodied depth. I tweet, blog and share for free via social media.


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