‘Coach, consultant and guru of all things men…’ The Man Whisperer - Kenny Mammarella D'Cruz

‘Man Whisperer’

The Man Whisperer - Personal Development Consultant

Who are you? Why are you here? Where are you going? Want to get clear?


Personal Development The Man Whisperer

Personal Development Consultant : Kenny Mammarella-D’Cruz

I share personal development, management & marketing tools to empower men to transform their lives and businesses.

‘He’s a gentle voice in the ears of the many men who come to him for help with life – he’s the man whisperer.’

The Man Whisperer

Want to know who you really are? You’ve come to the right place. I provide practical steps to empower you to turn around any issues, relationships and opportunities that have dominated your life. I’ll help you see the bigger picture of your life so that you can truly understand your past and transform your future.

I share insights and simple tools for daily life and I can work with you in a private consultations or as part of a mens group (in London or online).

By the time you’ve finished your journey with me, you’ll own your story, rather than your story owning you. You’ll have the awareness and tools to consciously embody your potential and calmly live your life with an open heart, a quiet mind and feet firmly on the ground.

Find out more About Me.

Kenny is the man’s man who gets to the heart of a guy’s issues. He talks frankly and open-heartedly to rebuild broken spirits and to give men the space they need not to hide their fears with a smokescreen “Wallace-type smile in front of the rage” but to go through the darkness. His humorous, easy spirit provides an empathetic place for men of all ages to open up to this “shadow” self that (otherwise) leads to despair.

Personal Discovery

Who Are You?

Uncover the best of who you really are and embody your potential.


Men’s Groups

Do You Want To Become A Better Man?

We get real, laugh, listen and grow together. Self-awareness is the key.


Voice Dialogue

What’s Running Your Life?

Meet, and consciously work with the conflicting parts inside of you.


Management Consultancy

Is Your Business Conscious And Delivering Results?

Getting the results that matter to you, aligned with your vision & values.


Transformation Game

How Do You Play The Game Of Life?

A simple board game, empowering you to totally transform your life.


Upcoming Special Events

MenScream: Scream Therapy Men’s Group – June 13

Swiss Cottage, London 7pm – 9:30pm.
elling and screaming is one of the fastest ways to release stress and pent up anger. It’s an incredibly effective technique that’s under-utilised because most people don’t have anywhere to scream loudly without disturbing or distressing other people. More info…

MenCamp: Annual Camping Weekend – June 16-18

Lamborne End, Essex More info…

Menrocco: Men’s Personal Development Adventures in Morocco – October

Five days in Morrocco, plus men’s groups beforehand to prepare and aftwerwards to consolidate the progress. More info…

Personal Development for Personal Trainers

I’m excited to announce that I’ll soon be running live workshops and also an online mastermind group specifically for personal trainers.

The focus will be on the psychological issues involved with being a personal trainer and how those issues affect your personal wellbeing and your business.

Participants will gain:

  • greater awareness and understanding of the issues, as well as
  • tips and strategies for dealing with them,

so that they can become better, more successful personal trainers and happier people.

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Blog posts

‘The Game’: players, prostitutes, lads and ladies of the night

When Lauren asked if she could kiss me, I instinctively said “no” and tagged another guy to take my place in the scene – a snog was far too ‘in your face’ for my liking, and definitely too intimate for happily married me.

A couple of scenes later, I knew Russell was in trouble when I saw his top lip quiver and the blood rushing to his face. He was enacting a violent bedroom scene with Gemma, strangling her with his left arm while pretending to penetrate her from behind. The director stopped the scene and I allowed Russell to ‘tag me in’ as his replacement to complete the scene. Gemma was naked, but I remained fully clothed throughout the play, as did the four other male volunteers.

‘The Game’ is an incredible live show, in which scenes from the real life stories of six prostitutes are played to the audience. The male characters are all played by non-actors, who…

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How to Love and Support the Amazing Women in your Life

To celebrate International Women’s Day on March 8th, I’m doing my bit to help women by helping men to better understand women, so that we can all have better relationships and happier lives. Menstruation and menopause are things that women experience and men don’t, and therefore it can be difficult for some men to understand and relate to women around those things. That’s why I’ve asked Christine Page to write this guest blog to give us men some advice about this.

As a doctor and counsellor for over 40 years, I’ve been privileged to share intimacies with thousands of women around the world.

My husband Leland says: there’s nothing more beautiful in the Universe than a woman in her power. I’ve met many men who echo this sentiment; they just want to know how to serve the females in their lives. But when asked what they want, their women often reply: if you love me, you should know!

Please, men, don’t walk away or stop asking. Women embody a collective amnesia, following the suppression of all things feminine some 3500 years ago. This has left us with few role models today who express the qualities of a fully empowered and beautiful woman.

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Cancer – A Catalyst for Life Change?

When people discover that they have cancer, their initial reaction is typically “I’m going to die!” You can often see those same words written in the eyes of their loved ones; and it’s true. Life will never be the same again.

My take is not to hand power over, but to use a person’s energy to feel their experience, get the message that cancer wants to give them, and then allow cancer to pass. Thank the messenger for doing its job, then let it go.

It’s not about “think positive then everything will be okay.” It’s more about focusing on what you want to grow, rather than on what you want to go. How do you want life to be on the other side of this? What is life trying to tell you? What needs to die in order for you to be who you really are and live a truer life?

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10 Tips for the Maturing Male

Here are the top ten things that surprised me about ageing:

I can get away with flirting, challenging, questioning, laying boundaries, being cheeky and giving compliments like I’d never imagined! I wonder whether it’s my tone, my attitude, or that I’m no longer seen as a horny young man just trying to get a leg over, or whether it’s my new found mature confidence. Whatever it is, I love it! I make eye contact, lower my voice, take my time, tilt my head downwards slightly while my eyeballs look up, and I raise an eyebrow – it works a treat!

Tip: Take a breath, take a chance, hold the space and play – lovingly.

I thought my flossing technique had improved because I could feel more between my teeth. It turned out to be receding gums!

Tip: Take care of your gums and teeth, and go to the dentist to check for gum disease. Floss and brush twice a day and if you smoke – stop it!

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